Mole on my blogsite....Happy Thanksgiving

I have wanted to write about this for some time. I have a "mole"(s) who watches my blogsite. It isn't that I write anything prolific or create vast words of wisdom. No. It is a smarmy little toad I am referring too! Someone (maybe more?) who "knows" me, reads what I say and apparently finds great joy in telling a certain person in particular, about my writing. The sad thing is this toad wants to disrupte things, to hurt peple. Not that the toad would admit to it. No, the toad thinks, I'm sure, that relaying what I write, in some bizarre way, "keeps them posted" on my movements etc. Like what I do, who I see, blah blah blah.

It has hindered what I have written for months now. But no more.

To the Mole I say this. My writings vary from total fact, to fiction based on fact, or fact based on fiction. So before you run to the phone or the person (or people) who you feel the need to tell what I write, just remember what I've said. And I would prefer if you would just not visit my blog..... You are not welcome!

On a lighter note.........HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!! Yes, a day late I know.

I flew to California on Wednesday and will be flying home to Minnesota on Sunday. Had Turkey dinner in a fine restaurant and a nice day was had by all.

I did learn something. A saying that is so true.....you can't go home again. After one has attained adulthood, moved away from home, in my case moved to a different State, created a life, etc. To think you can go back to the people who you spent holidays with during your childhood and youth was an error on my part to say the least. Wishful thinking...too many "Hallmark" moments.

You can't get back the past. Just remember it for what it was and move on. Keep those happy memories but don't expect to bring them to the present.

I realised Wednesday night where my life is and where I am happy. I'm happy in my litttle house in Minnesota. At my house is my best, BEST friend and soulmate. My cat too! I miss them and my little life there. I have a dear friend, yes Linda, this is for you, whom I can't wait to see and talk too. I can't wait to return to the gym and see some nice men whom I'm getting to know. I've learned friendship is so important and I will treasure that more than anything.

As an aside, I have been working out here in CA, but it isn't like my gym at home....no friends to say hi, how are you, etc.

I can only hope that I remember all I have learned on this visit to California and treasure all I have at home.......in Minnesota.