Want to Blog? Don't spread the word!
I learned this the hard way. I began blogging and thought, hmmm, pretty cool. I can write about whatever I choose, no matter what form said thoughts took.
I could slam anyone and everyone. I could describe in the utmost detail my inner most secrets, thoughts, desires, wishes, dreams, failures, affairs.....you get the picture.
It wasn't until I had proudly given my blogsite url to some friends and family that I learned a VALUABLE lesson. One I cannot correct!
DON'T SHARE YOUR BLOGSITE WITH THOSE YOU KNOW!!
I'm not saying someone you know may not come across it. No! What I learned is that once you have given said blogsite out, whenever a blog is written, I am aware that relatives and friends may choose this time to say, "hmmmm, I wonder what 'Lady Of The Lake' is writing about"?
And you KNOW that this will be the time you are writing negative things about your family. Or you may write about the man you are having an affair with and HIS friends will tell HIM about this and all hell will break loose.
Oh yes! A lesson, once again, learned the hard way. Why can't people learn lessons the EASY WAY???
4 Comments:
Like the words "military intellegenge" have an oxymoronic flavor to them, learning a thing easily has also that same inflection.
Ya learn a thing by trial and error, it fails, ya do it differently.
T'ain't easy.
But, go figure this, if ya will. Y'all talked about bein' lonely?
I've told all my friends about m'blog, but, to date, only m'sister in law has written any comment at all. (of the people I told)
And, while that might make me a bit on the lonely side, too, ha! I have a b'zillion bloggin' buddies that seem t'be right there at m'side through thick and thin, and fer that, I ain't lonely.
Course, the darned 'puter always hogs the sheets.
Boneman, to my knowledge only one relative has viewed my sight, and a few online friends, but still. It it knowing they COULD view my site, and most likely at the worst possible time, that inhibits me from writing as I would like.
hmmm
Maybe ya need a (right word?)
nom d'plume?
A second blog with a favorite name ya always wanted t'have, say,
Cinderella (nah)
or, Barbarella (nah)
or,....hey.
You know you more'n I know you.
You pick the name, eh?
There are a very select few that know who Jojo really is.
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